《玛利亚*蒙台梭利*十诫A Decalogue by Dr.Maria Montessori@求辨真伪》

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    01. 除非你被孩子邀请，否则永远不要去碰孩子（任何形式）Never touch the child unless invited by him. In some form or the other.
    02. 不管孩子在不在场，永远不要说孩子不好的地方。Never speak ill of the child in his presence or absence.
    03. 把心思放在加强和帮助对于孩子好的方面，那么Ta坏的一面就会有越来越少的空间出现。Concentrate on strengthening and helping the development of what is good in the child so that it's presence may leave less and less space for evil.
    04. 准备环境要积极主动。要永续地一丝不苟地照顾环境。帮助孩子与环境建立有建设性的关系。给Ta示范教具所应放置的位置，给Ta示范教具的正确的使用方法。Be active in preparing the environment. Take meticulous and constant care of it. Help the child establish constructive relation with it. Show the proper place where the means development are kept and demonstrate their proper use.
    05. 要随时准备好回应孩子发展的需求，且，要随时聆听和回应孩子的呼吁。Be ever ready to answer the call of the child who stands in need of you and always listen and respond to the child who appeals you.
    06. 尊重孩子做错事，相信Ta们能够或者晚一些时候能够进行自我修正，但，如果有任何滥用环境或者有任何行为会伤害到孩子的发展或者其他孩子的发展，一定要坚决地进行制止。Repect the child who makes a mistake and then or later correct himself, but stop firmly and immediately any misuse of the environment and any action which endangers the child, his development or others.
    07. 尊重孩子选择休息或者观察其他孩子工作，或者在考虑自己做过的事情或者Ta将要做的事情。不要叫Ta，也不要强迫Ta去做其他形式的工作。Respect the child who takes rest or watch others working or ponders over what he himself has done or will do. Neither call him, nor force him to other forms of activity.
    08. 帮助那些在寻找工作但找不到工作的人。Help those who are in search of activity and cannot find it.
    09. 孩子之前拒绝了你的示范，但，永远不要觉得累。仍然需要给孩子重复示范，或者帮助孩子还没有取得和不完美的地方。要让这个充满活力，细心照顾，设置一些限制，提供一个安静平和的环境，使用柔和的语言，且，让孩子感受到你的爱。孩子寻求帮助的时候，要随时准备好出现。有时候，要学会把自己藏起来。Be untiring in repeating presentations to the child who refused them earlier, in helping the child acquire what is not yet his own and overcome imperfections. Do this by animating the environment with care, with restraint and silence, with mild words and loving presence. Make your ready presence felt to the child who searches and hide from the child who has found.
    10. 一定要用最好的行为对待孩子，且，随时可以提供给Ta拥有的最好的。Always treat the child with the best of good manners and offer him the best you have in yourself and at your disposal.